Get Out! Twenty-five Years of Doing What I Love?
This part of the Professional Learning Cycle is by far the most challenging. It requires each of us to get real and do this often, which let’s face it, is not something that is easy. You can ask my friend Patricia, last Friday was a challenging day, full moon, immersed in planning, and a cancelled flight. It took a conversation with her to spark my desire to flip into my reflective mode. What did she remind me? Her words were simple, "You matter and are valuable. Take a breath and let yourself have this icky moment." And with that, I got up and remembered that I've always embraced the icky and utilized my friends to call me on it. Join me on my career reflection.
You may not believe that this campaigner, personality type of ENFP, ever had self-doubt and thought about giving up, but I did almost give up in year one. Because I am real about decisions and equally consider people, within my DNA is a pragmatist who loves to see others have their best moments; thus I love connecting to build relationships. So at year twenty-five, I'm going there. I'm going to reflect on the full journey and what I have learned and the goals this process inspires.
When my classmate posted this picture of Facebook, I was at first glance HORRIFIED! Literally, I shouted, "Gag me with a spoon!" And, then, I quieted down the former-mullet haired insecurity. Why not own this moment and reflect beyond the icky hair style? I loved everything about school. I had so much fun that night with friends that I keep up with thanks to social media. Each of us have great lives, families, and still awesome smiles. My favorite color is still pink and I wear Swatch watches every day. You can say, my watches are part of my signature look. After I calmed my vanity, I took a deeper look at the picture and here are my top three reflective notes that started my year twenty-five reflection.
The young girl was not sure what she would become, but she knew she would be packing up to move into her Florida State University dorm in two short months. She needed to cement those summer experiences to catapult her into a world of independent learning and be prepped for mindset to be challenged.
(Ok, if you have not asked to Alexa to play music from the '80s, read a little closer.)
Most of my professional circle today, knows my story of how I started. In fact, my friend, Dr. Monica Robinson, shared with me the other day that she is buying her first pair of Birkenstocks this summer because of my story. I am so happy for her choice of footwear, but what brings a bigger smile to my face? There are three key reasons. The first reason is because I persevered through my official first year of teaching and now I have the opportunity to expand my friendships. The second reason is that the friendships that I make do move me to motivate my good to great shifts. Finally, the third reason, with each new educator I connect with, I still impact a change in trajectory from striving reader to a confident reader having more options than he/she did prior.
Learning Moments from Year
Fast forwarding to year three through five, make it all about the reading, strengthening theory to practice, and creating a routine of reflection. These will be the years that pave the teacher confidence with consistent results, being asked to deliver professional learning for others, requests to learn something new or be asked to move classrooms two years in a row. For some of these moments, it is still possible to roll your eyes like a boss, but because you get beyond it, you are even better. Begin to share more of your reflections so that your mentors, coaches, and BFF can support reassurance, tell you to get over yourself, and celebrate with you. Then, when your principal asks you to go to a meeting, don’t fret. That meeting can actually lead to something beyond measure.
On November 8, I turn forty-nine. Each of the twenty-five years has brought me much happiness, offered opportunities to be challenged, create, and add change-agent to my personality. Many fabulous life moments have happened, the brown to gray to white hair has happened, and the desire to teach, inspire, and learn has added the awesomeness of mentoring and coaching. I appreciate when people notice, “she bops” to connect others and partner for others to discover their best selves.
Therefore, my reflection from Year 24 to today:
Share your reflections and favorite moments. Trust me, we learn from others’ stories.
Happy November! Love what you do and do what you love.